
“Shame occurs when you haven’t been able to get away with the ‘who’ you want people to think you are.” — Carl Whitaker
Midnight Musings
Nothing beats a late night, a stubborn cigar, some lo-fi music, and writing down some of the thoughts I’ve collected as a family therapist.







The Disease of “I Don’t Know…”
Left, right, down, up? Follow this clinical story about what happens when a client is confronted about their disease of having to many “I don’t knows.”
